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Anti-scam program
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Irina Grebneva
Director of the agency
E-mail: irina@scammerlist.com
Most Russian ladies are serious and looking for marriage. But there are some very active criminal scammer groups. It is they who are behind most of the scammers profiles.
We have the unique anti-scam program that helps us to get rid our site of scammers.
We have a database of scammers' IP-addresses. Russian ladies who come from there are never activated.
We have our own scammer list (in partnership with the AllSingleRussianGirls.com) where people can register scammers and as well we check other scammer lists to see new faces on the scene and delete their profiles if they are on the site. If a lady is reported on the site, we do in-depth check to see if she is a real serious lady or a scammer.
But we do not look only through scammers lists but also see through their contrivance. It is easy for scammers - to change names, photos, email addresses. But some things they can't change and we follow them to guard you from them.
Look at our scammer list
Anti-scam Reports and Analyzing - Submit request
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Recognize a scammer? - It is possible
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Scammers prefer to give their emails in the first letters and make a man communicate with them not on the site.(he will probably not notice when a sign scammer will be written on their profiles)
Scammers do not give their telephones. (Russian ladies according to their words do not have telephones). They prefer to phone themselves or "give the telephone of their girl- friend and agree on the time of phone calls.
Scammer prefer to write the first letter themselves. (Of course, in this case they have much more men answering and much more victims.)
Scammer if they put on the site a girl of 23-30 will write in her questionary that she wants to find a man from 25 to 60 or 65. They are not going to live with the man, their goal is money.
Scammers very quickly "fall in love" with the men they are communicating with. They are very eloquent in this. They write a lot about their love and plans for future. They create a fairy tale dream for a man, a dream that will make him loose his head.
Scammers have many fraudulent credit cards and they can easily join such sites as yahoo, match, date, american singles. Yes, in some time their profiles will be blocked (becuase of fraud), but they will gather some men to work with there.
In their long answers scammers write a lot about honesty, seriousness, that they look for honest person and real love and nothing else matters.
Real Russian ladies prefer first to communicate, then to give their email or to write to email address a man gives.
In reality, Russian ladies (and people ) all have home telephone and mobiles. In Russia the number of mobiles is more than a number of people.
Russian ladies are more conservative by nature, most prefer a man to show their attention to them. They can send a wink or a postcard, but rarely a letter.
Real Russian brides prefer age difference to be maximum 15-20 years. They want to have a family for many years, they want children, they prefer somebody close to them by age.
Real russian girls are more reserved in this. They know that Internet dating is Internet dating and to fall in love people should meet.
Some answers of real Russian ladies will be very eloquent, original, some will be very dull with standard phrases. In the first type you want find anything about honesty (if a person is honest and has not met many cases of dishonesty, he does not think about this. ). The second type will write about stability, reliability, kindness but not Love (they are shy).
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Scammers and their ways
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1. Firstly - beware of a GREAT photo on the site. Do not fool yourself. Having a photo says nothing about it belonging to the person responding.
2. The next step in the scam is the "direct" approach - to make a man leave the site's experienced staff, and to begin to write to her private email.
3. Exchanging letters with "her" is the next step in the scam.
4. The next warning sign is that the "lady" does not want to give you her telephone number. You will be told that yes, she can communicate each day with you over the Internet (or use the Internet at work), but she has no telephone.
5. Another warning sign is that you will be told about her love for you very quickly in the relationship. You can expect to have an acknowledgement of love already in the second letter.
6. So now we are ready for the "close". The "lady" thinks that you are ready (especially on ICQ where things start to happen very quickly), and she makes her next move. Sometimes she will say that her friend has a man in Spain, Italy or Germany, and this friend went to Spain and met her man there. Now you are ready for the "close", when she says that she wants the same trip, but with you. She wants to come to the USA "and have two wonderful weeks alone with you".
7. Of course next she asks for the money to go to Moscow, to apply for a visa and buy tickets to the US. In some cases, she can ask for $1500, and in some cases she can say that she has half the money and so "only" needs the second half. It will depend on her "budget". Be aware that IT IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR A RUSSIAN LADIES TO GO TO USA so easily - COMPLETELY IMPOSSIBLE.
Read about scammers scenarios
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Are all Russian ladies scammers?
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Unfortunately, Russian scammers become so active the last years that for many the words Russian dating and Russian ladies are connected with Russian scamming.
Why do they exist?
The iron curtain was raised in the 90 th and Russian ladies become popular. They differed from Western women. Some of these differences are just myths, some are quite real.
When Perestroyka has just begun, it seemed that to live in Russia is very dangerous and unstable. You never knew what would happen tomorrow.
People rushed to leave the country. You live one time in your life and nobody wants to have hungry life with unstable future.
It was not easy to leave Russia. The most easy it was for beautiful Russian ladies. Russian women have and had highest priority of family values before career and work, they wanted to have good quiet family life.
Life in Europe and USA seemed a paradise - prosperous, happy, stable. Many beautiful Russian ladies sought for a husband abroad. Some were looking there for love, some were looking just for a way to escape Russia. The last type of Russian ladies did not choose, they just agreed to marry almost any man who wanted to marry them. And people are different! They could marry a man 30-40 years older than them. And they just did not look at their future husband as a man with whom they are going to live. Several years later Russian television was full of moaning and complains of these women. They blamed all American and Western men, they warned other Russian ladies not to marry them (interesting that in spite of this most of them did not leave their new country and returned to Russia to live).
But the life in Russia has changed and is changing. There are many very expensive cars that you can see in the streets. There are many people that go to rest in resorts of Spain, Jamaica, other places. People in Russia can buy expensive clothes from famous clothes designer.
If a girl wants to sell herself as expensively as possible and it does not matter to whom, she can do it easily in Russia. When I go by car in the streets of St-Petersburg and see an expensive and rare car, I can say almost for sure that it is driven by a beautiful blonde. These ladies can find rich boyfriends (usually not husbands) here, especially in big cities, that give them cars, expensive clothes and holidays in expensive resorts.
Most Russian ladies that come to the agency are not looking for the richest buyer. They want to find love, and it does not matter for them where. They want to make their chances higher and so apply for international marriage agency. If they find love in Russia, they will marry here, if they find love in USA, then they will move to their husband.
For some Russian ladies it matters where they find a husband. They do not want a Russian husband- they think that in Russia men make worse fathers, and less loyal husbands than abroad. They have their right to look for husband outside Russia.
As I say these ladies do not look for a way out of Russia, they look for a partner for friendship, sex, support, mutual fidelity and they prefer men less than 20 years older than them (the usual age difference for partners in Russia is up to 20 years).
But some men wants to believe in fairy tales.They think that Russia is so big and sure there is a blond beauty there who is looking for a man just like them. And some marriage agencies with Russian ladies and scammer-artists use this myth to get profit. Marriage agencies write on their pages that the big age difference is welcomed by Russian ladies. Some even omit this information in the ladies' questionaries.
We have sites with russian dating and dating site for disabled people. On the first type of site russian scammers register in big numbers, on the sites for disabled Nigerian scammers - men and women register in big numbers. We do not obviously activate their profiles, we have our means to recognize them. Interesting that they have one trait in common. Ladies usually are 23-30 y.o., young, beautiful, wishing to find a partner up to 65. They write eloquently that they are looking just for love, honesty and faithfulness and it does not matter anything else. And men are caught! (Fortunately, only till the time when she will ask for money to come to him, or for money to help her to get out of her problems).
Many men imagine that it is real Russian ladies who do it, they do not think about their future, but maybe they will and will change in future.
No, nothing like that. Very often it is companies, where people are taken to work (and salary there are rather big, especially for places far from Moscow and St-Petersburg). It is a shift work, where some people write letters, others talk on the phone, if needed, others take money by Western Union.
They prefer sites like match, Yahoo, American Singles where they can pay by fraudulent credit card, send as many letters as possible with their emails before they are blocked and work on the men who answered them unhurriedly. Men on these sites know less about Russian scammers, they are easier to work with. But of course, they also register to different Russian dating sites.
But they are not plenty, they have just many names, many faces, many emails, many different sets of pictures.
Other Russian ladies work, scammer-artists work on the sites, they do not have any other work. Russian ladies choose, they do not agree to any man, it does not matter for scammer-artists not the age, not the nationality of their supposed victim. Only one thing is important if they will be able to make him send them money. Russian ladies can put not very good pictures, scammer-artists put only the pictures that gather the most number of men (either model pictures of beautiful Russian ladies (singers, models and so on) or not professional photos of innocent blondes, the pictures becoming more and more sexy with time. Russian ladies do not have a habit to fall in love on the second-third letter and tell about love and honesty all the time. Scammer artists do have such thing in common (it works in the best way with men who are tired from loneliness).
Yes , there are fairy tales in life and you can fall in love with Russian lady who will also fall in love with you. But do not full yourself. Look for beauty in the face, in her eyes, see what she can be, do not follow only ladies with model pictures. In life they can be the same as the women with non professional photos, who look less glamorous on the site but who are more real and open for relationship.
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